Happy Sadie Hawkins Day!

 

This is me of course, in the most wonderful moment captured from last year. But feeling the love, the wonder of nature in all her different aspects, and making memories!

I am only posting now because, a. I don't want to worry people, and 2. I should give fair warning when backing out of my usually daily posts. 

But hey, three or 4 blogs is quite more than any one octogenarian should handle. And I will keep adding something sometimes, but am enjoying going to the art studio, and taking photos around town, waiting patiently for spring, so...less daily posts!

Plus I'm a helper for friends who need rides after having shoulder surgery...or when cars are in the shop. And I'm doing the lunch program almost every day at the Senior Center...which was a really good idea for February that got me up and out of the house, and met new people. My new friends from Wisconsin are going home this weekend. It's nice that they came to visit her sister here for the whole month of February.

Anyway, I'm busy. Thanks for reading, and you know I'll post something whenever it hits my heart to do so!

Do leap over something to commemorate the day!

Today's quote:

 “Every worthwhile book contains many faults, and every worthwhile writer commits them.” lexicographer Eric Partridge

Death Cafe'

Yesterday we had a community of friends gather for an event that was curious.  A Death Cafe' was something that you signed up for (though several people just dropped in and were welcomed).  There were small tables and coffee, tea, and snacks like one would nibble while sitting at a cafe'.  We were interested in the topic of Death, being something we all will experience, and seldom just talk about.

(A typical cafe' - but not where we meet!)

Well, I guess I may be different, in that I post things here about my experiences of those who die.  Some of that may also be considered the grief process.  We didn't talk about that so much.

And I currently read a blog about elder concerns, where the blogger is currently dying and sharing her experiences and thoughts, as well as a lot of others who comment there. (Time Goes By)

We had some simple questions to consider, but by no means to follow exactly.  And we were chatty people so had a lot to say.  "When was your first experience of death?"  That seemed to bring some really thoughtful responses.

And "what do you want to do before you die?"

That was a bit harder to answer.  Many (most) of us were in the elder category (over 60 probably.) So we'd lost people, and were some thinkers about our own mortality.

And it got really funny at times.

I loved the hearty laughs when we thought of our relatives and their beliefs of the after-life...and how they couldn't all have been right.  Some of them may have been very disappointed.

Of course I can't tell you what anyone said, which means we were sharing in confidentiality.  And since we already knew each other by being part of the same community, it was sharing a bit differently than if we were strangers (I think.)

I am glad I experienced the Death Cafe' and thank those who organized it.  I don't imagine I'll be going to another one, but perhaps in a few years I might.  Who knows.