With my being Ms Rogers, I am claiming the area I live in as my neighborhood.
Potted flowers at the entrance to the apartment building.
I sat outside with neighbors talking before the noon sun hit the west side of the building the other day. Then everyone scoots indoors.
I was issued a key fob to let me through the locked door, and during the day, the landlady can let in deliveries in who buzz her office. I also got a key fob for my son and his wife to use, otherwise I'd have to go down to the lobby to let them in.
And looking the other way I see the studio apartment building across the parking lot. The cute little covered sitting area at the end of the cars is the smoking area. I asked a neighbor if they are allowed to smoke pot, but she thought not. I've not lived in a state where it's legal before, so don't know the rules.
And Wednesday I found out my next-door neighbor's apartment is being emptied out by the management...she must have died fairly recently because my son said someone was knocking loudly on her door when we were moving all my stuff in just 3 weeks ago last Monday, (July 27th). (Come to think of it, it could have been Meals on Wheels, because they often will require a response.)
I would imagine if she had had any relatives they would have been clearing out the apartment. But the manager and maintenance man were carting boxes and lots of grocery carts full of her stuff downstairs, putting a lot of things like shoes, audio tapes, kitchen wares on the "free table" in the lobby. The residents were like vultures actually...very friendly but a bit unpleasant to be around.
So I soon won't be the newest tenant.
Of course I am sorry I never to meet my former next-door-neighbor. It is sad to think how many people in senior living places like this might die. (How did I get into this apartment anyway?) It brings home to me the situation of a blogger who I didn't even know, who is suddenly in Hospice care...and so many bloggers are writing comments to Joanne and her daughter. I am touched by all the outpouring of care from many of the bloggers I know.
Which reminds me that one of the neighbors mentioned that Monday someone's things were all put out by the curb as they had been evicted. Glad I missed that episode of "grab what you want."
Recycling belongings makes sense though.
I'll pass. I thought of asking the manager if there was a dresser that might be purchased, but decided I'd go through thrift stores to obtain one, and actually am leaning toward getting something new. I'm delighting in not having too much that is left from the "people before me." The apartment itself has a sense that someone cared for some areas more than others. I could show you the awful corroded kitchen sink, where someone used some powerful acid that left the stainless steel completely stained.
There are scrubby bushes by the parking lot, and a few trees around as well. Hogback Ridge and Heron's Peak are huge grey hunks of rock to look at. I imagine they'll be dramatic in snow.
Can I add that meaningful connections seem to happen here on blogs. Thanks folks!
Sharing with Floral Friday Fotos and Skywatch Friday
...yes, stainless is rarely stainless! Be well.
ReplyDeleteI was spoiled to be the first owner of the stainless sinks in my last apartment in North Carolina. I honestly have never seen such a damaged one.
DeleteYou’re settling in. It probably helps that you’ve moved a lot, at least I think you have.
ReplyDeleteI got the notice about the Joanne post a couple of days ago, and then it popped up on my reading list again this morning.
Someone asked if this was different from when I moved from Florida at retirement to North Carolina. I sure hope so, because I think I really was burned out and depressed at that point, and it took me months to go out and become part of the community. I did spend the last week pretty much inside this small apartment, and realized I hadn't driven my car for a whole week. Today that will change!
DeleteI always had luck with Barkeepers Friend. Can't hurt. Follow directions and don't leave on long.
ReplyDeleteLaughing at my assumptions this morning...thinking it was some kind of link on the internet. Then the name came through, it might be something for cleaning stainless steel! Ha ha on me.
DeleteI was going to suggest Barkerpers Friend too. I can work miracles on stains and corrosion.
DeleteIt's kind of goulish to put somebody's belongings out just for people to grab.
ReplyDeleteI've been blogging for years and there is a long list of bloggers who no longer post. Many of them are still around, many have passed away and oftentimes it takes a while for the word to get around.
Do you think they'd replace that sink? Probably not. I just know it would bug me every time I used it and of course we use our sinks many, many times a day. Your dish pan idea is a good one, though.
ReplyDeleteGlad you're starting to get to know some neighbors. "Who are the people in your neighborhood?"
Oh, that's from Sesame Street.
Kudos to you for getting settled in at your new digs. Navigating senior living can be so difficult and tricky.
ReplyDeleteI had to have a new sink when I moved into my apartment. I was worth it! And, like J Mineo, I now use Barkeeper's Friend to keep it looking nice.
ReplyDeleteThe quotation is odd. Who ever wanted constant stimulation? I've always found everything quite stimulating enough without looking for it. Maybe it's just me. You seem to be getting into your new home and neighbors now. Soon it will be the larger community and you'll be set. I imagine winter roads won't be a problem in a place that's used to snow removal.
ReplyDeleteHere if people want to get rid of items they no longer want, they just place them on the walkways. Not always a good solution because of the rain which happens alot. We happen to live near a few charity shops so we can just donate. Have fun exploring your new neighborhood.
ReplyDeleteAll the best with settling in. May your new home bring you peace and joy. The sky photo you shared is lovely.
ReplyDeleteGreat clouds.
ReplyDeleteThe dish pan is a good solution. We always use one--plastic is easier on dishes than stainless steel.
ReplyDeleteGood sky.
ReplyDeleteNice shots.
ReplyDeleteWorth a Thousand Words
Kinda creepy, people nabbing dead people's stuff, but then often the auctions i buy from are estates of the recently departed, so not much different.
ReplyDeleteI like how deep you go and yet never make a fuss about it you are so accessible I love your style. your neighborhood is beautiful. I thought the photo of Hogback Ridge and Heron's Peak was diamond head! Thanks so much for your visits i really appreciate them at a very challenging time
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you are starting to socialize with neighbors.
ReplyDeleteI've been busy today, and didn't have time to answer each comment. Mea culpa. Thanks for stopping by and giving your thoughts!
ReplyDeleteIt’s sad to think about someone’s death and their things being dumped on a Free table. I really need to get rid of more stuff so that my children don’t have to deal with my junk.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful clouds. ❤️ I wish you all the best in your new home. Warm greetings from a retired lady living in Montreal, Canada ❤️ 😊 🇨🇦
ReplyDeleteYou are doing a great job of settling in. There's a lot to learn and do when you move to a new place.
ReplyDeleteIt is kind of creepy putting out people's things, but they are just things that are not needed any more and not the people.
Yes, stainless steel is not a perfect material either. I have a sink like that too and I always feel like it's dirty, I wash it with hand and dish sanitizer that's used in hospitals.
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