An organization stated that it's ..." core mission - to be good neighbors, good stewards, good ancestors."
I want to belong to places like that!
Just because it’s my creation. Doesn’t mean I need to keep it forever…nor have it possibly outlive me. Thus the shards of many pots go to the dump!
Our reward for dealing with all the dust that had accumulated on the pottery, and the shelves, and the curtains! - Ole’s Guacamole for shrimp tacos for me! Southwest tacos for Russ. Since he's planning a vacation in Mexico soon, he practiced his Spanish, what would southwest be? Ah, we had to look it up, suroeste!
Yes, we sat by Flat Creek, gurgling away between us and the Motel 8.
I’m proud to say I’ve only a couple of dings in my flesh so far, from jamming fingers and arms against edges of boxes. This is the cost of having a body which is much older than my thoughts.
Unfortunately Delta Airlines cancelled his flight around noon Sunday, and they cancelled all the other flights from Asheville to Atlanta that day, so he stayed to keep working until Monday noon! My benefit, but who knows what happened to Delta? Nobody so far has said a thing. They were delaying flights into and out of Atlanta due to thunderstorms on Friday when he originally was scheduled from Ohio...it's all up in the air. Ha ha ha. But I want to trust the airline that carries my dear one through the air!
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Are you living life in a way that it will come to a natural end with you in harmony with your inner world and in harmony with the beauty that surrounds? If not, what steps do you need to take?
Heron Dance Journalist, Rod MacIver
So you're making the move? Maybe to Colorado? I think you had that in mind. I'm glad you have help with packing in the meantime.
ReplyDeleteIt seems that I am definitely going to move…but not for months probably. Yes Colorado, if I can have help with family to drag my stuff out there. I’m excited that the family is supporting me to do this. Waiting list to get an apartment is the time constraint.
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ReplyDeleteI did not know you are moving. I hope all goes smoothly. Are you moving close to your son out west? I am glad you have help packing. Take care, enjoy your day and the week ahead.
My goal is to live within an hour’s drive of my son in CO. I now am definitely doing the first steps to that aim. My landlady here knows I’m waiting to hear of available apartment but don’t expect it till summer. This step just means getting a start on things…still much to do. At least these are things I don’t need to live day to day.
DeleteIt is good to be ready - my folks will have to move at some point this year, like you, waiting for something to come up - however they don't seem to want to make a start on getting things sorted - I am worried it will be a mad panic when they get notice a flat is available for them and they are no where near ready!
ReplyDeletePerhaps my high level of anxiety about this life-changing move precipitated the earlier packing. My sons kept asking if I'd heard anything from the waiting lists, and I kept thinking, how oh how can I do this by myself...and they are supporting me in the process...what is doable now, vs what has to wait.
Delete...being close to family is so important.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I've always made good friends who feel much like family, so I'll really miss them when I move away from here! But at least the internet lets us still communicate regularly!
DeleteHaving to wait a bit can be a good thing, you sort of ease into it rather than BAM!...overnight! I'll be staying right here as Caleb (variously referred to a Son, Proge or C.) shares the house and makes it possible for me to continue to live in the woods.
ReplyDeleteToe crossed your don't have to wait tooooooooo long!
Glad you've got family close to you, and can stay where you are, and be happy and cozy (except when a blizzard strikes).
DeleteI remember that you said something about moving some time ago, but this was a surprise.
ReplyDeleteI'm easing into the move as much as possible...at this time of my life. Basically I've known friends who were much younger, and sicker in body who didn't survive a big move. Sad to say. Perhaps my having lived here 10 years is the longest I've ever lived in one place!
DeleteI'm a big believer in being as proactive as possible in the aging process. Do things sooner rather than later, do them while we still can, and do them while we can still make choices and direct the change. So good for you with your plans to move closer to your son and starting your packing early.
ReplyDeleteI'm aware once again how everything is a process, not a product. The trip is more important than the destination. So here I am in the midst of this process of moving. I'm going to certainly get used to it. For one thing, the blow-up bed will remain in the living room and I'll try to sleep on it myself. Checking out that as a way to have an immediate bed once I arrive later on.
DeleteI really had no idea you were planning a move but it sounds wise. Daunting, but wise. And you have help.
ReplyDeleteThat is a beautiful picture of you, Barbara! And what a handsome son you have.
Thanks Ms Moon! Yes, and starting early (6 mos?) is just a way to relieve my anxieties about so much to do. As just one person, at least. This week two friends will come over and help pack clothes (and take some to the thrift store too). And maybe we'll get the dishes/baking things that I no longer use packed too. So I'm about to take Russ to the airport now.
DeleteThis comes as a surprise to me but perhaps you've mentioned it before. I would hate to have to move again at this point in my life. Colorado is going to be a big change. I may seem monumental to you but a little bit at a time makes it more doable.
ReplyDeleteThis is monumental, for sure. I've lived in this apartment 10 years this fall. It's actually the longest I've lived in any one home. My family has always shifted into better accommodations, wherever we were. Several times I tried to say this was my last home, but it didn't work out that way, so i don't even think it any more!
DeleteGood for you. I feel it's important to retain the choice and a degree of control over the relocating process, rather than being forced into doing it by a sudden change in circumstances. And to do the packing and getting organised steadily and methodically is so much less stressful. I hope exactly the right apartment comes available at the right time for you.
ReplyDeleteThanks, my fingers and toes and prayers and all good intentions are pointing in that direction as well. We shall see. Just like the airline canceling flights for no good reason, and a war that changed the price of gas, thus making driving around more precious, anything can happen!
DeleteIt sounds like you have put a lot of thought and consideration into moving. And I think taking your time with a six month timetable is smart. You aren't rushed and can make choices (and have time to revisit the choices). It is great you have the support of your family and your gorgeous son to help. One step at a time. And waiting for the right home is great too. I wish you all the best!
ReplyDeleteThanks for adding your wishes...which cost little to do (just a message here) but the energy is sent out to the universe. We need to keep up sending as much positive vibes as we can in whichever directions we choose.
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