Update about blogCa

Who knew all this would happen afterwards! Joe Pye Weed attracts a couple of Monarchs.

Tuesday, September 2, 2025

Beautiful Arches National Park - Ahlemeier photos 1

 Sharing another visitor's photos, by Curt Ahlemeier in June 2025, which he shared on the internet. I visited the same sites in April this year. (Here and HERE.) But it's always fun to see someone else's' viewpoints.









More of Curt's photos soon!

Sharing with Wordless Wednesday on Tuesday.

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Today's quote:

Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. 

~Eleanor Roosevelt



Monday, September 1, 2025

It's September!

 Somehow this beginning of the month is harder for me to write about.

I've been procrastinating, and now it's here. 

Don't know why, because Autumn is always my favorite month...fresh crisp air and leaf colors...kids going back to school, a new year in a way.

I've never felt it was the dying time...but maybe it is. So perhaps I should be embracing the dying of things. After all it happens to all of us, and even more often to our various appliances. I'll think of the term for that soon. Planned obsolescence. 

Mt. Pisgah, Blue Ridge Parkway 2013


The cycle of life. That's a term which we can all relate to. Think of the song Circle of Life in The Lion King.



And a bit more artistic, I found this source of all of Van Gogh's works, on Open Culture.

Very timely when considering how many of us become somewhat (or more) depressed with wintertime greys and low light levels in the northern hemisphere. Seeing such beauty expressed on canvas by a man who clearly had a rather depressing life, gives a bit of joy to me.


OK rabbit rabbit. I'm all for increasing the amount of good luck in everyone's lives!


Baby bunnies raised by my son's family in CT several years ago.


And Happy Labor Day...celebrate as you choose.




Sunday, August 31, 2025

All endings bring beginnings

 Finally the end of August!

What a month it's been. Topsy turvy might be the best description. My dizzy spell one night echoed another blogger's, as well as my good friend Teresa (who just went back on taking Meclazine daily) and then hearing about my ex-hubby taking a spill onto his face ending up with 2 black-eyes (I didn't get to see the photo, just heard about it.) Otherwise in my health I lost a tooth and had to have the root pulled separately, got infected so went on antibiotics, then surprisingly got in to see a neurologist and got a new diagnosis. (The surprise was an appointment due to a cancelation.) I had a small accident of backing into my landlady's new car. I ate many meals with friends as well as continued to pick up low-cost lunches in little clam-shell containers. I hiked! Yes, a mile and a half to High Falls just before my 83rd birthday. Whew, that was so hard for me, but totally worth it. Birthday was celebrated low-key with several friends over several weeks sharing meals.

When talking with my sons, I learned some surprising things that are happening in their lives. 

The weather was most cooperative in finally giving 70s during the day for the last couple of weeks and down into 50s on Monday night...and continuing.


The view from where a bridge used to cross the Flat Creek in Montreat NC, date Aug. 20, 2025.


The old bridge (since I moved here in 2007) as seen in 2014.  Rhododendron railings were rustic, but difficult to be very secure.


Flat Creek bridge was given new railings around 2020-22.




After the storms of Sept. 26-27, 2024, the creek rushed down the mountain and the remains of the bridge are on the far side. The gravel road on the other side is a short access between two areas of the town's maintenance department. To the right of the bridge debris you can see the access ford where large trucks can actually drive across the stream. 

Taken 2 months after the storms, these vehicles belong to the maintenance workers for Town of Montreat. The access road bridge was repaired pretty quickly, further downstream. They've certainly been busy in the last 11 months. The rocks without any debris on them have all been added to stabilize the banks.


After: the following photos are all looking upstream, at the same bank and the leaning tree.


Rock can be moved as well, just more slowly. The bank used to have a huge pile of rocks just beyond the leaning tree, which surprisingly survived the flood.

Before: the next two photos were taken 3 weeks before the flood, Sept. 2024.

The big rocks just beyond the leaning tree, where the people can be seen.


Before:

This pile of rocks is no longer there.

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What are the new beginnings?

A disaster preparedness office is being opened in Black Mountain...which will probably have a name like safety preparedness or something more palatable. Rescue of anyone who'd been in damaged structures, or who'd been washed downstream by the floods was immediately recognized as a priority, then of course communication to the community   Then survival items, food, water and shelters. Having a plan in place for the possibility with climate change that any of this may happen again...and even being given a brochure that says "Have a Kit." That was given out at the lunch program to all the seniors. To actually be prepared to evacuate your home in case of another disaster!

The golf course has been partially repaired. Our town funds are stretched thin. But the vacationing people are our source of revenue, so having something for them to do is important. Fortunately the pool wasn't damaged, so families had that to do until school starts. Volunteers on our Beautification Committee have worked to have landscaping all over town look great.



Taken 3 weeks before the storms of 2024.


I wonder what other beginnings are coming round the corner.

But there is a strong foundation built on lots of rocks around here!

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Today's quote:

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.

AESOP



Saturday, August 30, 2025

Shiva the trained cat

 For Saturday's Critters this week, I re-share some photos about my grand-cat Shiva.



A recent photo of Shiva using the potty




The following series were taken about 10 years ago. My son and his wife trained her as a kitten. They had the equipment and instructions, starting with a little litter box on top of the toilet, then the bottom was cut out, and finally it was removed completely.




She uses the toilet, but can't flush, nor scratch adequately to dispose of her leavings. However, isn't she a smart gal? There are little yellow puddles still left in the shower floor however. Yet, if I had a cat who didn't require cat litter, I would be able to breathe around her, I bet.




However, she lives with family members in another state, for now at least!! When I recently visited them I discovered sharing a potty with Shiva meant I should always flush after I used it, or she'd be leaving some message on the seat for me!

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Today's quote:

Adults who are racked with death anxiety are not odd birds who have contracted some exotic disease, but men and women whose family and culture have failed to knit the proper protective clothing for them to withstand the icy chill of mortality. -Irvin D. Yalom, psychiatrist and professor (b. 13 Jun 1931)


Friday, August 29, 2025

Motorcycle blogs

Back to considering motorcycles for Sepia Saturday!

A  couple of posts from my past blogging...


Friday, September 26, 2014

Before I was a Motorcycle Mama...

First I was just a date...
on the back of a Triumph motorcycle with my one-day-to-become husband, who is now my ex-husband.

But back in my early twenties, I  was like a lot of women, a bit of a fool for those rumbling machines...and the men who rode them.

Doug rode this bike across country from Hartford, CT to San Diego, CA where he was about to have "Basic Training" for the Coast Guard.

A friend of his lived in the middle of the country near St. Louis, MO, and he stopped to visit Dave. And I happened to be boarding in that house, since it was on a college campus, so I met Doug.  Our entire relationship then moved into the status of writing letters (remember them?)

He sent me this photo, with a lovely innocent inscription on the reverse...and of course I carried it in my wallet.
To Barbara the "Laughing  Girl"
from the dancing prep school hood
with memories of Pepsi on the
cellar stairs.
With love and such,
Doug

Yes that was 1961.  The cellar stairs were where we had a lot of our "date" while he may have been working on the Triumph.  I know he did give me a ride at some time.  And either that trip, or the next, he took me out for pizza as well. The motorcycle was no longer part of the equation by the time we seriously got engaged.

But that's another story.  I share this with my Sepia Saturday friends, and hope you'll  come over to see what they've come up with as well. 





 In about 1971 I was half owner of a Honda motorcycle with my then boyfriend.  We split up and sold the motorcycle.  By then I had my first 2 sons, and decided they needed me alive and healthy and that motorcycles were pretty risky to drive around.

Several years later, Doug, by then my ex hubby, again drove a motorcycle and had a bad accident with broken bones...and I don't think he had any more motorcycles.  My oldest son, however, did own one when he was in the Navy.

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Another SS post

Saturday, August 19, 2017 Motorcycles in my life

Sepia Saturday sharing from the past...

Not my ex-husband's first motorcycle, but similar!

I rode more than this first motorcycle, a Triton, which belonged to my boyfriend
 at the time, who I later married.

We didn't stay married all that long, and the best part was having two
 sons together. (He had sold the motorcycle when he entered the Coast Guard and before we got married.)  After the divorce I found my new-found freedom in the 70s and maybe went a bit overboard.  I had a boyfriend who I got engaged to, and we bought a motorcycle together...a little Honda.  

Here I am (hands on hips) having a yard sale in 1973.  I think it was mainly things my sister was selling as she moved from an apartment in FL to living in a cabin in TN.  But there are the Honda's handlebars in the foreground, which I felt pretty comfortable riding on my own.

In a few more years,  the next motorcycle in my life was a BMW, which another boyfriend owned.  I actually never drove another one myself.  (Don't ask how many boyfriends I had, but I'll gladly tell you I only was married once!)

However just last week I heard a motorcycle behind me, and knew it was a BMW by the sound.  They are the earliest (that I know of) to have a drive shaft rather than a chain.  It makes a world of difference, I think!

Not me, nor the exact model we rode in the 70s, obviously!

 Motorcyclists love to cruise on the Blue Ridge Parkway which is about 5 miles from my home.

And between my home and the Parkway is a huge Harley Davidson store.  So most of the "bikes" on the parkway are Harleys.

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This week's Sepia Saturday prompt shows this:
Travel has always been a central theme in photography. Ever since the days of the first Box Brownies, we have got our cameras out at weddings and when we go on holiday. Our theme image this week features a couple of motorcyclists from 90 years ago, with their motorbikes and set against a faded seaside scene. The lady is my mother, the gentleman was a family friend - and the chap with the camera would have been my father. They were travelling - in this case to the village of Blue Anchor in Somerset. You can go where you like for Sepia Saturday 790 - the destination is yours to choose. All you need to do is to post us a link to your old photographs on or around Saturday the 30th August 2025 HERE.

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Today's quote:

No one who has ever touched liberation could possibly want anything other than liberation for everyone.

REV. ANGEL KYODO WILLIAMS



Thursday, August 28, 2025

It’s all about balance

 So I have yet another diagnosis to add to the list on my patient portal. That's the bad news. My legs and feet have "neuropathy." They have lowered feeling from mid-calf down. I'm sure a few of my readers experience the same thing.

I've been having trouble walking up and even down stairs. And when standing from a sitting position, I felt like my legs were wood, and waited a minute to start lurching forward. Which was good for my blood pressure also! I didn't feel like I couldn't walk, just had my legs spread in my gait to make sure I was steady.

The good news is that some of my balance issues can be helped (a bit, I hope) with physical therapy. I will be evaluated this next week, and hopefully start working on being more capable, better balance, and gait. I've worked with this therapist before and liked him.



The neurology report on my memory difficulties was to be expected...somewhere in the mild range. I did have trouble giving answers on the verbal test at times. At least I was oriented to time and place. The doctor didn't seem to appreciate my jokes though. I respect him for that. But he said it was a normal range - however when the comments were typed up, he said mild memory impairment. I take that as validation of what I thought was happening. 

The golf course in Black Mountain with North Fork Rd.

And third, and perhaps most important, my essential tremor in my fingers is perhaps going to respond to higher doses of the medication I took before. However it has side effects for my breathing. And/or my breathing meds have side effects for my fingers. It's a delicate balance.

I've got to breathe. I don't gotta type blogs every day. But it would be nice to be able to type, feed and dress myself.


I decided to go ahead and talk about me here, because last night (writing on Tues) I took the Primidone (which is also for seizures) and slept through the night, not even getting up to use the bathroom. I think I felt drugged when I woke up, even though I also felt I'd slept well. It's interesting to note that it's a barbiturate, a central nervous system depressant.

Primidone is something I started at half this dose, and took for a couple of years, before getting to this level. I stopped it four months ago because the doctor in the hospital told me of how it affected the memory of his father. He didn't tell me I should stop it, just gave me that information. (I told the neurologist this, but he never commented on it.)

I personally didn't notice any help with memory having 4 months off that drug, while my fingers got more and more shaky. (I have to use my left hand to steady my right one enough to write anything legible.)

The Albuterol inhaler is called a rescue inhaler. Nobody ever said "this is when you need it." They just said, you'll know. So I found by trial and error that it did help if I was going to do anything like climb a flight of stairs or walk around the lake...by using it beforehand. It doesn't seem to do much if I'm coughing a lot, which can be caused by stress, inhaling chemicals or dust, or exhaustion.

I've also got the same drug in my nebulizer, which I use to clear out my lungs with a saline inhalation twice a day. Then I am supposed to use an Albuterol solution also. I've never noticed it made any difference. 

And now the neurologist told me that Albuterol could diminish the effectiveness of the Primidone.

OK, I've done a bit of research on line, and the drug interaction between Primidone and Albuterol doesn't show up on my first attempt to see more research. However, a neurologist did tell me that, and wrote it in his clinical notes about me.

So now I'm trying to balance between my fingers tremor and breathing.

Did I mention the side effect of being lightheaded all day? So I didn't take the Primidone the next night.


All art today came from the internet!


Wednesday, August 27, 2025

High Falls NC

My last post from last week's hike. Some disappointments, after all, that's the way things happen. And definitely a site that was worth all the efforts. And for me it was supreme effort!


The beginning of the hike.



The High Falls


Detail of strange rocky stuff in the roots of the fallen tree (used in header photo) - there may be more along the path...

Very long/tall fallen tree by the path. 

Maybe the same rocky stuff beside the path further along. I wonder if any geography teachers recognize it. The word Tufa came to mind. It was hard enough for several of us to lean on.


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Today's quote:

The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone. -Harriet Beecher Stowe, abolitionist and novelist (14 Jun 1811-1896)

Sharing with Wordless Wednesday

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I just went to neurologist yesterday...a cancellation meant I didn't have to wait till my February appointment. I liked him, but he said he's leaving, as the other Doctors have already. Working for HCA is not what Doctors have signed on to do...a profit driven outfit which bought out our local Mission Hospital.

There are some good news and not so good news. I'm not ready to talk about it yet.

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

A damp hike

 Well, the rain did hold off until we had just packed in all the picnic things, checked for ticks that might be riding home with us, and piled into the car.

So the dampness of our 1-1/2 mile hike down to and up from the High Falls was due to the woods as well as our own  sweat. The woods were very thick, with some oaks  and beech and pines, very high up. And many Mountain Laurel and Rhododendron as underbrush.

Then on the forest floor were the ancient leavings of leaves and humus that was inches thick, upon which all kinds of moss and fungus could be found.




I thought this might have been Indian Pipe, a kind of fungus without any chlorophyl...but it didn't have any leaf-like structures.

I initially thought all the little white specks were something caught in spider webs. But no, they are individual heads of tiny little fungi. 



This was a falls you hear as a roar immediately. No trickling sound, just a big waterfall! Not many glimpses through trees at this time of year. I think I'd like to try to see it when less greenery is everywhere.

Teresa and her granddaughter at High Falls.

Myself and Helen. I was so grateful to have my walking stick with me.!

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Today's quote:

"May we not neglect the silence
printed in the center of our being.
It will not fail us."
~Thomas Merton
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