Friday, March 24, 2023

Elizabeth Keckley - Women's History Month - 24




 At some point in February Elizabeth Keckley was born; we don't know the day because she was born enslaved; we are lucky to know the month and year at all. She was a talented seamstress who bought herself out of slavery with her needle and her dress designs, and she eventually became personal dressmaker (and sometime nurse, because, you know, racism) for Mary Todd Lincoln, wife of Abraham.

She is remembered (sometimes) because of her unusual position and incredible entrepreneurial sense, but like Harriet Tubman she had a lesser known but very important role supporting the community of newly freed slaves - for Elizabeth, in the DC area.
Her life was hard, sad, triumphant at (all too few) times, and unbelievable at others and I will never cease to be amazed what people can do through the most unfair and unimaginable of hardships.
Highly recommend the History Chicks podcast for her history - it's a riveting and highly informative (and occasionally enraging) hour.

The History Chicks episode on Elizabeth Keckley:


Her autobigraphy, "Behind the Scenes, or, 30 years a slave and 4 years in the White House" available at Project Gutenburg for free:




She was the dressmaker of Washington D.C., her dresses sophisticated and clean and designed to be of excellent fit, the desire of many. And to clients, she was often more than a dressmaker; she was a dear friend.

Elizabeth Keckley was born enslaved in Virginia in 1818. The only daughter of her enslaved mother, her birth father was the plantation owner. The man Elizabeth considered a father was her mother's husband, an enslaved man who lived on a plantation nearby. Twice a year on special holidays, mother, father, and daughter spent time together.

When Elizabeth was about seven years old, her father joined her and her mother, finally getting to live together. The time, however, was short-lived. Her father was taken West soon after. Of the experience, Elizabeth wrote:

"My father and mother never met again in this world. They kept up a regular correspondence for years, and the most precious mementoes of my existence are the faded old letters that he wrote, full of love, and always hoping that the future would bring brighter days. In nearly every letter is a message for me. 'Tell my darling little Lizzie,' he writes, 'to be a good girl, and to learn her book. Kiss her for me, and tell her that I will come to see her some day.' Thus he wrote time and again, but he never came. He lived in hope, but died without ever seeing his wife and child."

Life was a constant struggle for Elizabeth. In her teens, she was beaten at the whim of an owner who seemed to desire vengeance on Elizabeth. She was raped by her owner's friend, from which Elizabeth became a mother. And in 1847, Elizabeth, her mother and son were taken to St. Louis, where Elizabeth worked as a seamstress. For twelve years, she worked many hours a day, her income going to support the family that enslaved her.

But it was also during these years of work as a seamstress that she met many women in town. Elizabeth was able to establish a network of connections. And in 1855, through a connection, Elizabeth secured a loan to purchase freedom for her and her son.

Elizabeth eventually made her way to Washington D.C., where she leveraged her skills as a seamstress, business savvy, and network to grow her business. She employed twenty seamstresses, making dresses for many women in town, including Mary Todd Lincoln, the president's wife.

Today's quote:
"None of us are perfect, for which reason we should heed the voice of charity when it whispers in our ears, 'Do not magnify the imperfections of others.' "
“An act may be wrong, but unless the ruling power recognizes the wrong, it is useless to hope for a correction of it.”
-- Elizabeth Keckley

7 comments:

  1. Another great woman! Love the Keckley quote at the end. Take care, have a happy weekend!

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  2. Barbara, You certainly have highlighted some strong and interesting women! Elizabeth Keckley lived life to the fullest possible, given her circumstances. Perseverance and smarts combined to succeed in the lousy situation that she was born into. As for the 12 women of the year in your previous posting, they are an amazing group. Tough and determined... Take Care, Big Daddy Dave

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